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Comment on Checking in by Mia

Mia — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:57:01 +0000

Ok I do not think I am as amusing as you….but as divorce stats go I have the best! Took 13 yrs to acomplish…of course mine goes faster now that I fired all the lawyers. MY idiot ex just would not let go. I felt like a human on the end of a leash with him and the courts on the other side. Fortunatly I learned how to yank the leash and am almost free. My idiot also did not tell the family? How amusing when they landed on my doorstep and could not figure out why he was sleeping in the basement. I didnt have a dog house….best I could do : ) Of course locking the door because he refused to move and then hiring the truck finally worked to get him out of the house……the rest went at about the same pace and with my foot on his backside the whole way….good grief

It made my day when I typed this in goggle and someone actually popped up. I needed a laugh !

LA courts are a politically correct nightmare of which I have almost escaped : )

So glad to hear you have also …………………….

Comment on About last night by Lori

Lori — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 07:44:25 +0000

I know this post is old but I just found your site tonight after getting an email from my idiot ex last night about the same old “poor him” BS. I got mad & almost responded to him pointing out why he is an idiot like I usually do which never gets me anywhere; saved my response to him and went out on the web searching “idiot husband” instead; your site being the first to come up. I am glad I did.

OMG!! I threw my idiot ex out last January and I know what the “feeling bad; at least I was financially secure; at least I wasn’t alone” back and forth thing was like. I did that off and on for almost the whole first year we were separated.

I also had my first real fight with my Best Friend last year. 12 years of friendship and never so much as an argument. We get separated and it happened.

I think because everything you have known is in upheaval for a long while after you separate that your emotions are all over the place - resulting in questioning yourself and being emotionally volatile. How could it not? You aren’t financially secure (especially if you are disabled to an extent like we are (you mentioned you have RA and I have Fibromyalgia and some Osteoarthritis)) and you have given up so much just to get out of an emotionally unhealthy situation. I’m just starting to find out that much of what we both seem to have gone through is completely normal.

I hope you didn’t beat yourself up too much at the time and that your friend forgave you quickly. I have read some of your more recent posts and see you are in a much better place now that you are further along and seem to need this place to speak less and less. Kudos!!!! to you. I hope you get everything you deserve and hope and wish for as soon as you are ready.

Comment on Checking in by Planet Buzz

Planet Buzz — Thu, 21 May 2009 21:38:02 +0000

well, you could get re-married and divorced, then start the blog all over again.

Comment on Checking in by Frances

Frances — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:42:26 +0000

I still come here to re-read some of the posts. Hope to see a blog about your whole new life sans Endicott soon.

Comment on You are correct, sir by Leroy

Leroy — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 18:55:23 +0000

Please keep on writing, your style is amazing, I just came across your blog.

Comment on You are correct, sir by Trent

Trent — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 05:42:14 +0000

Merry Christmas!

Comment on Are you still around? by TigerTom

TigerTom — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 21:05:56 +0000

Sounds like you’ve had a rough time. When I feel down, I count my blessings and remember how much worse off some people in the world are.

Comment on A curious day by nurys

nurys — Fri, 16 May 2008 13:50:45 +0000

yes thank you thats exactly how i feel but man o man i was looking for a website for the store in san antonio tx i bought a t- shirt from! But i love your writing you hit the note- Im sure your friend will be ok just put that anxiety and dreppression in perspective its what makes u, u!!! I struggle also and have that same epiphanies! wow should be grateful but why do i feel so lousey? keep gettin up that s what my husband says dont stay down

Comment on Exes and Ohs by Bo

Bo — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 05:46:29 +0000

Simply outstanding! I like posts like that. Your blog is added to my favorites ;-). Continue writing.

Comment on Cleaning house by Sherry

Sherry — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 23:46:42 +0000

Love this blog! I have an idiot ex husband too. We have a child together so he’s something I will have to deal with for a very looooooong time. Totally relate to being a possession. I say that to people all the time…it’s not that he wants me as much as he doesn’t want anyone else to have me. Men really are crazy. Anyway, thanks Flo!

Sherry